Paul Michael Love
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I carried the family while dying inside

It's my story, and yours if you're winning at everything except the promises you make yourself.

A Paul Michael Love Story
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We will never be back

We didn't go anywhere to need to get back from

Under the scratches it's the same lad who watched T2 and thought, aye, I'll have some of that.

We were always here. We just forgot who and how to be.

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    Man On Fire

    The room, the standard and the structure to keep building when the first push is over.

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About Paul

I’m not here to help men become someone else

I know this pattern because I’ve lived it, watched it, coached it, and had to find my own way back from it more than once.

Stress has never been something I could just politely file away and deal with later. It shows, and when it shows around people you care about, you either keep pretending you’re fine or you develop enough self awareness to catch the pattern before it keeps taking pieces off you.

That part took practice.

Years of it.

Years of study, years in the gym, years coaching men, years in the profession, years spotting the quickest route back on top and practising it through my own impulsive wiring, bad decisions, pressure, responsibility, and all the other inconvenient little bastards life tends to bring with it.

The work is simple because simple works.

In their words

Men like you
James Gee
Nathan Bulch

What Changes

The Outside Changes, But That’s Not The Thing
Tim Wilkinson

I suppose I always told myself I was making the choices, but looking back now I think I often wasn’t, and it was more driven by habit.

The biggest thing was that I found myself with a lot of energy throughout. That was a real eye opener.

I was actually getting jobs done around the house.

Tim Wilkinson
The Argument Stops Running The House

Before this, everything felt like a fight with myself.

Now the argument has stopped, it’s quieter.

It’s more like, ‘This is what I said I’d do,’ and I just get on with it.

Evren Akarsu
The Negotiation Gets Removed

Before, it was always a negotiation.

Now there isn’t really a debate.

The alarm goes and I’m up.

It’s just what I do.

Dan Mole
The Man Comes Back Into The Room

I don’t feel like I’ve let myself down so much, and that clears the decks for me to do my job and look after my family.

Henry Stevens

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